* part 1 move files from messages to objects tomato - did not touch chat_gui yet, but image loaders and other stuff
* part 1.1
* part 2, mostly chatgui - also ngcft1 behind the scenes
* part 3 - port over rest, except for avatar_manager, which is effectivly disabled
* fix surface missused causing bmp loader to crash
* fixing small issues and small forward refactor
