change some labels and display tox status in main menu bar

based on user feedback

src/tox_ui_utils.hpp

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@
 
 class ToxClient;
 struct ConfigModelI;
+struct ToxPrivateI;
 
 class ToxUIUtils {
 	bool _show_add_friend_window {false};
@@ -9,11 +10,13 @@ class ToxUIUtils {
 
 	ToxClient& _tc;
 	ConfigModelI& _conf;
+	ToxPrivateI* _tp{nullptr};
 
 	public:
 		ToxUIUtils(
 			ToxClient& tc,
-			ConfigModelI& conf
+			ConfigModelI& conf,
+			ToxPrivateI* tp = nullptr
 		);
 
 		void render(void);